#SoxSocial Tap Room: A Night of Baseball with Chicago Blogger Babes

Did you hear? Revolution Brewing partnered with Guaranteed Rate to take your Chi summer baseball experience to the next level on the south side. The #SoxSocial Tap Room is a new bar and events space for all White Sox baseball ticket holders stocked with some of Revolution Brewing favorites like Anti-Hero IPA, Fist City Chicago Pale Ale, Rev Pils that baseball fans can enjoy along the left field line.

What’s better than beer, baseball, and besties on a Friday night? We had to check it out and hold on to the last month of summer with a Chicago blogger baseball outing. I joined some of my favorite Chicago bloggers from the Chicagogrammers community for August 17th’s game – The Sox vs. Kansas City Royals (a city I just fell in love with this year when I interviewed Hallmark and HBO).

Getting Ready for Baseball with Chicago Blogger Babes:

Since there’s a hashtag in the title, you know #SoxSocial Tap Room is going to be a social media experience. I heard there’s a selfie area and thank goodness – a phone charging station. So, I prepped for the big night of baseball at The #SoxSocial Tap Room with a new hair look – pigtails – and an illuminating glow from my new Too Faced Sweet Peach Glow palette – that literally smells like peaches. Ulta Beauty had sponsored a girl’s mentorship Shine and Dine benefit dinner for Step Up in Chicago that I attended last week (you can read more about giving back by being part of Step Up’s mission to inspire women to inspire girls here).

 

White Sox vs Kansas City in Chicago

I took my office look to night by ditching my BCBG heels and switching them for flip flops. I’m thinking more and more about investing in streetwear shoes, like these (comfortable and) gorgeous Air Max 270, but I’m not there yet.

Booze and Baseball:

It’s always exciting to go to a Chicago sporting event. I went to my first White Sox game last year – and honestly it’s much more relaxed than the Cub’s stadium, but it has better food. So you win some, you lose some – it applies for baseball and a night out.

This game was no different. It was chill. People were dressed in white and black. There was a crowd, and they were excited about The Sox, but in a perfect way – it was more tame than Wrigley Field.

 

Baseball is amazing because it makes you excited to be an American – they honored soldiers by having three of them parachute into the stadium. Also I feel like when anyone sings Star Spangled Banner – you just get goose bumps.

We started off the night with nachos and beer because we were at Revolution Brewing #SoxSocial Tap Room. This space wasn’t over the top. It was a common area off to the side and up the stairs where people could enjoy a beer and maybe a taco and also swag a free hat by downloading the MLB hat. Once you have the hat, it changes the game. You start getting interested in baseball – even if you don’t follow baseball.

 

After a drink (or two), we decided to explore the stadium. It was about the second inning and people were already flocking in lines for hot dogs or to take photos with Elvis impersonators. I’m assuming there was a themed Elvis night – because Elvis look-a-likes were everywhere.

We got our hot dogs with extra onions and finally found our seats in the bleachers. It was there that I loved baseballs. Hats. check. Hot dogs. check. But it wasn’t until I was sitting in front of the bright green grass and taking a selfie with my girls, that I felt the true sense of going out for a night at the ball game.

The #SoxSocial

Overall, I think the #SoxSocial is a nice addition to the Guaranteed Rate Ball Park – but I think you should also explore other parts of the stadium and find your seats for the true baseball experience. Make sure to add a night at the stadium to your Chicago Summer Bucketlist. It’s chill. It’s fun. And if the Sox wins, the night ends in fireworks (like it did for us). What’s #1 on your summer bucket list?

 

Amanda Elliott is a writer and speaker and a relationship builder. She believes that meeting people in person is important. After attending numerous fashion, startup, and creative events, she founded Windy City Cosmo is 2015 to help people make connections in the city as they build their businesses, start and end relationships and see and be seen. Over the past three years, the entrepreneurs she’s interviewed have become the most successful in Chicago and Windy City Cosmo won an award in 2017 for her work for female entrepreneurs.

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Is There an App for Finding a Basic Bitch BFF?

Wanted: someone to eat sushi with on Thursday night.

I am an independent woman, but you know,  I would like to eat a civil dinner with a fellow basic bitch or atleast someone other than  Netflix.

Will You Be My Friend and Other Ads That Shouldn’t Exist:

I remember reading an article about a women who posted an ad on Craigslist for someone to eat sushi with because her friends didn’t like sushi.

I thought that was so crazy. Sadly a decade later,  I understand.

We need people to do life with, to have dinner with, to talk to, and most importantly to help us in the here and now stages of life.

Growing up we had our classmates who were going through 7th grade together, but now as a twenty something, we may or may not have coworkers our age or at all. It’s harder to naturally make new friends in your twenties. Even in a city.

It’s weird to search for friends in your twenties. It gets a worse stigma than creating a Tinder or Match.com account. In fact we update our Tinder profile stating that we are on Tinder to find friends.

Making friends should come natural. Why can’t basic bitches find other basic bitches?

But friends move away. We take the job and we move away from our friends. Someone gets a boyfriend or someone finds a new best friend.

I think having friends and community around the world is awesome and it makes me want to travel, but I also think that you need to build community in your actual community. This means you have to make an effort to make new friends.

That soup does get cold from 1500 miles away.

Making New Friends in Your Twenties:

I need people. We need people. 

I realized this three years ago when I moved to Chicago and met Wednesday, well, we’ll call him “Wednesday” because I met him on a Wednesday.

I was coming home from work and waiting for the train. It was still winter so I rushed under the heat lamp and that’s where I met him.

We met up that night and even though he forgot his I.D. at home, he said “We don’t have to drink, I just want to get to know you.”

He became one of my best friends for the few months he was in Chicago. We both started our jobs a month prior and would meet up talking about how to do better at work and if decorating your desk makes you seem more personable.

It was so nice to have someone who was through the same thing I was—learning a new job and company culture.

We would literally meet at the train station and talk about our day and watch YouTube videos. He was French, so he introduced me to French rap, and we would listen to it as he helped me decorate my new apartment.

Like most people I have made friends with in my twenties, he’s living in another city now. But it was so nice to have him in my life.

And the same goes true for the friends I have made at organizations where I volunteer, and the group of bloggers who are now some of my best friends.

Chicago blogger, Matt Hensler and Amanda Elliott at a media brunch at Osteria La Media. Photo: Amanda Elliott

 

Asking Friends for Help is Weirder Than Ordering Take Out:

A fellow blogger just wrote a great article about community and the importance of community care, rather than self-care. Below is an excerpt from the article,”Why I don’t believe in “self care” (and how to make it obsolete).”

“But what if we can’t take care of ourselves?

The real problem is that self care is an enormous task. Nobody can take care of themselves 24 hours a day, seven days a week, 365 days a year. It’s just not possible. We know that’s true of children and the elderly, but for adults who think of themselves as competent, it can be a difficult thing to recognize.

Capitalism, and the individualism that supports it, have made us believe that as adults we have to take care of ourselves (and maybe our romantic partners). And so in order to get through it, we cope. We buy things we don’t really need, we eat out, and we shop for shiny new things. Because that way, it feels like we’re doing it all by ourselves. We believe that by paying for stuff, it means we’re taking care of ourselves, like capitalism tells us we are supposed to.

Do we really need that though…Why do I, an “independent,” mostly healthy woman with a good job and a house, need friends to come cook for me on a regular basis? Isn’t that something usually reserved for sick people or family?

Why does it seem weirder than ordering takeout?

Because instead of relying on my wages/capitalism to make dinner when I can’t, I’m relying on my community.

Community care means that we do things for the people around us. My friends come over and make dinner for me, but it’s not a one-way street. I handmade some cosmetics for the same friends, and let them have lots from my garden harvest last summer.  We don’t keep score – we just take care of each other when we can and when it’s needed.”

How to Make Friends in Your Twenties:

Making friends in your twenties and building community is one of the most rewarding ways to spend your time. Not only will you be building your network and helping yourself and others succeed, but your social life will be a lot more social and fulfilling.

Suggestions for Making New Friends Besides Via Dating Apps:

Let’s face it, having a girlfriend to do Wine Wednesday with is necessary.

Cheers to new friendships and moving to new cities.

 

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